Post by Admin on Jun 3, 2020 5:11:57 GMT
Dating site?...ahh
Someone I know told me that I should join a dating site if want to meet someone, but I hate dating sites, not only that whatever happened to meeting another through association?
To me, that's how you meet quality people is through association, cause everyone is already vetted for the most part.
Dating sites annoy the hell out of me cause of how they make you feel like 'meat', a hunk of mindless meat.
I resent sharing all that you're about to someone, just for them to ask 'How old are you?', or 'What type of job do you have?', or 'How tall are you?'....and most of that already in your profile, so when a dunce or bot asked me that I know they didn't even bother reading my profile, that annoys me to, people on dating sites who don't bother to 'read'!
Both genders face this annoyance.
I also don't like the way photos you upload get screened, reviewed, I hate that also, as private as a person I am.
And usually the photos they approve are the ones I hate of myself the most.
If I'm paying for the gdm service than I should be able to upload whatever photo of myself I feel like, within decency of course.
Cause photos will determine the type of person responds to you.
And if I just upload a dull photo of myself, than I'll attract a dull, 1 dimensional person....so I need to, through my photo, let them see my 'depth' right up front to save any confusion later.
They basically, on these dating sites, want a standard Police line up dull looking mug shot type photo.
Screw that.
Not only that but I'm sure anyone could 'screen capture' your photo and use it for whatever.
Why the F would I give strangers access to how I actually look?
All these years I've been on the net and not once have I ever shared a real pic of self, not cause I'm shady, but cause others are!
They could steal your identity.
Type my name in on google and I don't even come up cause smart enough not to ever sign anything online using real name...other than job application or official Government forms, speaking of I need to fill out that census before they come knocking at my door.
But ye, just not a fan of dating sites.
Maybe if I were some 'standard' type of soul, maybe, but now, no.
People make it so easy for scammers, real name, real pic of self, how dumb is that?
But maybe that's why I'm still single, cause I've gotten to paranoid over the years.
Someone I know told me that I should join a dating site if want to meet someone, but I hate dating sites, not only that whatever happened to meeting another through association?
To me, that's how you meet quality people is through association, cause everyone is already vetted for the most part.
Dating sites annoy the hell out of me cause of how they make you feel like 'meat', a hunk of mindless meat.
I resent sharing all that you're about to someone, just for them to ask 'How old are you?', or 'What type of job do you have?', or 'How tall are you?'....and most of that already in your profile, so when a dunce or bot asked me that I know they didn't even bother reading my profile, that annoys me to, people on dating sites who don't bother to 'read'!
Both genders face this annoyance.
I also don't like the way photos you upload get screened, reviewed, I hate that also, as private as a person I am.
And usually the photos they approve are the ones I hate of myself the most.
If I'm paying for the gdm service than I should be able to upload whatever photo of myself I feel like, within decency of course.
Cause photos will determine the type of person responds to you.
And if I just upload a dull photo of myself, than I'll attract a dull, 1 dimensional person....so I need to, through my photo, let them see my 'depth' right up front to save any confusion later.
They basically, on these dating sites, want a standard Police line up dull looking mug shot type photo.
Screw that.
Not only that but I'm sure anyone could 'screen capture' your photo and use it for whatever.
Why the F would I give strangers access to how I actually look?
All these years I've been on the net and not once have I ever shared a real pic of self, not cause I'm shady, but cause others are!
They could steal your identity.
Type my name in on google and I don't even come up cause smart enough not to ever sign anything online using real name...other than job application or official Government forms, speaking of I need to fill out that census before they come knocking at my door.
But ye, just not a fan of dating sites.
Maybe if I were some 'standard' type of soul, maybe, but now, no.
People make it so easy for scammers, real name, real pic of self, how dumb is that?
But maybe that's why I'm still single, cause I've gotten to paranoid over the years.