Basic common sense chatter, solutions and ideas

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Basic common sense chatter, solutions and ideas



Just basic common sense day to day thoughts and situations and solutions to follow for the common every day type or types.

Let's begin.

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Everyone should do this once or twice or more a year



Everyone with a brain should once or twice a year change their debit card number, just go to bank or credit union and now days they can usually do this in less than 15 minutes.

Why?

1. Think how many times you slide your card over the course of 6 months, at corner stores, this store and that, think about that.

2. For all the 'promos' you signed up for and forgot about, that after 30 day free trial, you forgot to cancel

3. To get the attention of subscription companies like comcast, ATT ect, who never seem to want to listen to you up and only until they can't blood suck your money.

Point is, over the course of a year, many places have access to your 'card number', it's just floating around out there, so why not change that card number every now and then to make it harder for scammers or just poor business practices by legit businesses....and you'll get peace of mind by doing so.

Recently got new computer, new IP address ect, and couldn't log into certain sites that was paying to be member of...so instead of playing their 'customer service game', on hold for hours, wasting your off day time, I just said 'screw it', and decided to cancel old card and get new one, now they'll come to me, instead of me chasing them down through hours of phone tag.

And if have pay-pal do the same, audit it, and if not happy with a service, cancel the hell out of that service and let them come to you begging to rejoin....cause now days they just don't care, they'll drain your account, even if dead and gone, they'll still drain your account and don't care about 'you' as a customer anymore, all they care about is 'bottom line', so cut off their bottom line now and then and see how quick they come running to you.

'Err, we notice your payment didn't go through', they'll say, and that's when you tell them to go pound sand for ignoring your calls and emails forever.

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Also, when you run away from evil, never turn back or go back, cause it will still be the same evil you originally fled.

Just keep moving forward.

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Either people or the person around you is going to help you, or they're going to be a drag, if they're a drag on you, ignore them and do your thing.

I know that sounds selfish, but until you achieve what it is you're trying to achieve, being around others who drag you down will just complicate that mission.

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It's also funny how no one will take the 'lead' or brave enough to initiate anything, take fiscal risk to achieve something big, no one around you will do that, but then the minute you yourself do that, now they want to all give input.

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You can never impress those who don't like you, nor should you ever try to.

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I found a site called 'mylife . com', and this site regularly (and I'm sure others like it), claims to know your identity, and posts all kinds of stuff about 'you', for others to search, addresses, numbers, this and that, but then the site goes further and often invents stuff about others malicious stuff, by suggesting 'you' could have arrest records, or warrents, or worse yet be a 's' preditor, then they prod you to 'pay', to see the persons profile..huh?

What a sham/scam, and more and more people are finding out about these sites that can wreck ones image by falsifying information about 'you' that others believe to be true.
As such, I'm going to contact an Attorney today and see if I can 'sue' this place for inventing stuff about me, and then prodding viewers, or myself to 'pay' to see if it's really me or not, again, what a shame...

I don't just want my name taking off their site, I'm going to screen capture the false stuff they suggest about my name (And I have a popular Spanish name), and then contact a Lawyer and see if I can see them for defimation!
No telling how many family members or former classmates, get their info about me from such sites.

Most people are to dumb to realize the only way to get official info about another is through government agencies, as in the FBI (federal background check), local check ect, not through 3rd party data gathering for profit sites online.

I'm going to sue that site, maybe others, if I can, for defimation...we shall see.

But this site here helps you or gives you instructions on how to take that crap down, bad info or even accurate address info about yourself which can endanger folks, like say if a stalker wants to know your where abouts.

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At the moment, I have no one in my life who cares, and I wonder if it's do to malicious 'data gathering' sites, that falsify information about 'you', that others can read, and chose to believe.

If so, well, there's nothing I can do about it.
But also, anyone who'd chose to believe the worst about 'me', doesn't deserve to be apart of my life anymore, not that they ever were, but just saying.

If proven wrong, which they will be, cause will run my own official federal background check on self, but ye, when proven wrong, all those who chose to believe BS about me, without validating info to me, or letting me know stuff was out there, all such people will be forever banned from my life for basically socially exiling me for years and years, whether it be family or others, doesn't matter.

I knew one day I'd figure this out.

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But at my age and stage in life, I just don't get upset about things like I used to, instead I just solve issues and move on, and or ignore.
I'm older, closer to the grave than I am my birth, so soon, none of it will matter.
But while alive, I just want whatever peace I can derive, and usually that peace has to come from within, although environment does play a large role in that peace.

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