I may do away with this section in that the older you get, the less sexual orientation matters.
I mean the older you get, the more all that sexual identity stuff becomes trivial tripe.
The older you get all that really starts to matter is behavior, or being comforted by nice souls, being around kind people, and their sexual orientation is the least thing on your mind.
I think all that sexual orientation stuff really seems important when at the peak of ones sexual arousal phase of life, but after that phase sexual orientation starts becoming less and less important, especially if never have 'sex'.
What does matter to me though is 'looks', looking tidy, fit and clean, that will probably always matter to me, and will determine who I want around me or not.